Healthy relationship in marriage

Marriage is a word which can change entire life of a person.Relationship must be strong between couples to make their life more comfortable.Some disturbances might occur in relationship but we need to overcome them to make our life a success.In earlier days family courts are not there and these many divorces are not there.Now it is becoming a big problem and children can’t stay happily if parents get separated.Though we face problems atleast to bring happiness in children’s face we need to think of compromise in the things which are disturbing the relationship.Important thing which must be there in relationship is belief.If we trust our partner it will lead to good understanding between the two and can enjoy good relationship.We need to spend some time with partner daily though we may be busy in our work.Important point is giving freedom to other person and respecting other persons ideas and thoughts which will result in developing good relationship.Though these points are old and everyone knows them implementation is there in some families only and because of this issue only divorce cases are getting increased daily.

Not just holidays

Holidays are important to everyone.In earlier generation holidays means both enjoyment and knowledge.But now it got changed to special classes to children to go to next level.Now we can see that children who are going to schools are facing pressure and if we keep them in schools and colleges till evening they can’t know the things which are happening around them and they will be having only bookish knowledge.It is the duty of every parent to see that children are having outside knowledge but majority of parents are feeling that they are buying everything for children and making them happy but they need to see that their children are making a move in proper manner and freedom need to be given but so many children are misusing the freedom and they are drinking and driving and smolsmo and some children are getting addicted to drugs also.Holidays means knowing something which we doesn’t know and learning new things but now if colleges are given holidays we are going for drinking and smoking which won’t sound nice.Colleges need to think about giving holidays to children because every human being wants to take rest for sometime and some children who can afford to go to hill stations and other places can learn so many things like atmosphere,language,problems etc.Creative thoughts can come to us if we keep our mind free and we can do miracles with those thoughts.Holidays means happiness but not running after schools and colleges.Some children may be interested to play cricket but they may not become great cricketers but if we allow them to play game they will feel happy which is an important meaning of holidays.

Importance of money

Money is playing an important role in the society.Without money we can’t expect the society to make a move even for a second.If we take a house without the proper support of family members family can’t grow.In the present generation women are going outside and doing work.Economic conditions of the country and financial condition of the family will be getting increased if both men and women go to work.The economic standards doesn’t depend upon the amount which we earn and spend but because of savings only economic dvelopment can be seen in the country.If country runs in deficit budget it won’t help people to grow.We can see that technology is getting increased but basic necessities are not there to certain sections even now also.Though governments are providing majority of things at free of cost by saying that government is there to help public but in reality it cannot be seen.Good financial skills should be there to run country or state properly and public must not think of about getting things at free of cost because after some years budget won’t be sufficient to run the country effectively.For example if we take a house majority of the families will be run by females.When women is able to do a work effectively then why can’t an economic officer can’t do that one?Right from my childhood I am hearing that India is developing country and when I can say that India is developed country?We need to give importance to money as we need to buy everything even water also but some moral values are there which we are not thinking in running after money.We are seeing in news that parents are getting separated by children for money and even for 100rs some persons are killing.Money management skills need to be there but we need to see that relations are not getting spoilt and to make a move in a correct manner so that path will help us to achieve goals.Amount must be there with everyone to stay securely without any fear as for everything amount is required.So,saving money will help us to stay in society and if women handles a house definitely family can cross the problems.

Tips to save the greatest planet

The greatest planet in this world is “earth” as we all know.But we need to know how to protect it.During summer time we are facing so many problems because of deforestation.In previous generation for example if we take our fathers or mothers generation we can see how people used to protect atmosphere but today we are staying in concrete jungle.If trees are not there in this world can we imagine rains?Not at all.So it is the duty of everyone to protect trees and to protect water levels in the ground.Trees are being removed everywhere and proper rainfall is not there now.We need to stay in AC rooms if summer comes but previously children used to play a lot during summer time.Now builders are constructing buildings everywhere and they are unable to think about atmosphere and they are unable to plant plants.Atmosphere is getting destroyed and we are occupying forest areas also which is a major setback for animals.Like human beings animals are also having a right to stay on this earth happily.Important thing which we have to understand is nature is essential for everything like for books,to prepare medicines,to prepare soaps or shampoos etc.But if we destroy atmosphere for everything can we stay on this earth?Atmo Atmosphere can be protected by planting plants,by digging soil for water to stay in ground level ,by protecting forests,by helping animals to stay in forests happily,by creating awareness of protecting soil which is there in lakes and rivers.If we do these things definitely we can stay on this earth happily and future generations will be nice as we are linked with nature for everything.One Important point we need to stop illegal export of sandalwood as it is important for everything including preparation of medicines.”Pls save atmosphere” for better tomorrow is the slogan which must be there in every office and school.

Five easy ways to remove obstacles to reach goal

Goal is important for each and every person.We need to strive hard to reach the goal which we kept.But we need to think twice or thrice whether we are making a move in correct manner to reach that goal.Today because of competition in every sector we are feeling lot of pressure and unable to reach the goal.One important point to reach the goal is to remove pressure from our mind.Today so many students are committing suicides because they are unable to bear the pressure.Another important point to reach goal is good surroundings.If we are staying in nice atmosphere our thinking will be in positive state and we can understand the problem easily and try to sort out solution.If negative atmosphere is there we can’t even think properly.This is the reason why doctors will ask us to go to change place if we face any serious health problems.Another point to reach our goal is to work hard or deeply about the subject.Today in schools and colleges we are running and we are just studying and writing in exams but we are not thinking deeply about how to write on our own and to know the subject deeply which will create interest on the subject and goal can be reached easily.Fourth point to achieve goal easily is to manage time properly.Time is an important factor which will play an important role in everyone’s life.If we give importance to time it will save us from dangers.Today when we are caught in drunk and drive test we are taking it easily.But earlier people used to sleep early and wake up early and drinking is not allowed in majority of the houses.Waking up early is an important factor to keep our mind in positive state and thoughts will come and if we wake up lately good ideas can be missed and time plays an important role in achieving success.Last point to achieve success is we need to be sportive.Even if we lose in the game which we are playing in our life we need to be sportive and we need to understand that failure is the stepping stone for success.We can learn lessons from failure and the person who fights till end will be considered as winner and each person is a special hero in his or her own life.

Budgeting

Budgeting will play an important role in everything.Budgeting is nothing but planning about how to do a thing in a good way.If we take budgeting in house we can see our mothers will be handling day to day activities in a nice way.Financially we need to grow as everything is linked with money and we need to save ourselves from crisis situations which might occur.If we see monthly expenditure in our house we can see what are the important things which we need to do in that month and now-a-days we can see that security is not there for jobs and we need to be planned enough to face any situation.If we see news paper we can know about state and central budgets and how governments are spending amount for important things.Budgeting is quite important in any sector and we need to manage expenses and profits and spend amount for important things so that we won’t make any move towards crisis as middle class person cannot go and ask anyone for money unless emergency situation occurs.Governments might provide good budgets but they need to see whether economic standards of living is getting increased or not.Then only budgeting or planning plays an important role in a family.

Revolt against molestation

Molestation is nothing but sexual harassment which can be seen everywhere now.This problem need to be eradicated as society is facing big problem because of this issue.In newspapers we are seeing the news daily regarding sexual harassment.In work places,bus complex, railway stations we can see this issue is getting increased every year.Some students are teasing women on roads and they are enjoying.Though rules are there not to harass any women still this issue is going on.In some cases we can see girls are being killed after getting brutally raped.Is it correct to harass a women in this way?Recently I have seen the news about killing women after brutally raping her.If it becomes common in the society then there won’t be any place for a girl to stay securely.Some persons are blaming girls for wearing dresses which are from Western country.But we need to stay properly and our mind must think properly and no need to blame any girl for the dress which they are wearing.It is the duty of every citizen to keep this country clean and a place to stay securely for a girl.Now governments introduced “SHE” teams to solve the problem but majority of the girls are fearing to give complaint on teasers and it became a good opportunity for rapists to continue their work.Revolt need to come in everyone’s mind and attitude to stop this problem.Even in work places it is there means our country cannot develop.Financial independence need to be there for every girl which help the country growth rate to get increased.Molestation became a serious problem and measures need to be taken to solve this problem.If we punish one single person who is trying to molest a girl others will be fearing but fear can’t be seen in any of the persons who got arrested in this case till now as rules are not strict.Molestation must not be encouraged and it is the duty of everyone to change their mindset regarding girls as so many fighters fought for girls right from removing child marriages till making girls educated.Indian country is facing many problems but molestation should not be a problem in this country as this country gave rights to each and every citizen and it is the duty of citizens to keep this country in first position in giving security to everyone and it is the best way to show our gratitude towards this country.

Technology is moving in wrong way

Technology became important in present generation.It is playing an important role in our life.Right from booking a ticket to go to some place till booking a furniture in online we are completely dependent on technology.Technology is a good fruit to present society.Mobile phones,internet changed entire living and we need to stay happily now but are we?Use of mobiles got increased and smartphones and android mobiles completely replaced basic mobiles.But majority of the students are getting addicted to mobiles and they are unable to stay without watching mobile.They need to be changed and their parents are unable to understand what to do as per latest survey by one famous media channel.Some students are using it for wrong things like watching wrong pictures and clicking pictures of girls and blackmailing them.Radiation which is coming out from mobile phones is causing severe health disease and so many birds are dying if they are going near to mobile towers.Public is doing agitations to move the mobile towers near by their houses to outskirts of city.Mobile is an important medium of communication and it must be used properly.Now paying our gas,electricity bills became easier with the help of android phones.Internet is playing an important role in our daily life.Social media is great fruit of advanced technology which can change our lives.We can chat with friends, view the things which are happening around us in net and we can share our pictures or videos in social media.Internet is required in banks and banks cannot work without net.Should we have to leave all these good things and become addicted to net and get scoldings from parents or someone? Some children are sitting for hours and hours before internet and they are unable to maintain social relationships with others and they are not having time to do exercises or go for walking.Some things must be changed as internet and mobiles are creating employment opportunities a lot.With the help of computer courses and mobile knowledge we can create wonders as lot of revenue is getting generated with the help of these things.Previous generation is not having these fruits but still they lived happily but we are having these things and we must be more happy than them but are we?The problem is we need to know how to use them properly so that our life will be in next level with the help of them.For expansion of business,to express our views,booking tickets,knowing the places computer and net connection is required.So we need to use them properly to understand about any issue which is happening around us as everything can be found and shared in net.

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CORRUPTION

Corruption is one of the problem which society is facing today.It became a normal thing like eating and sleeping.For each and everything we need to give bribe and then only work will be completed.If we go on like this making the entire society corrupted where we will land ourselves?Each and every citizen will be having work in government office like getting birth certificate,taking licence for a business or two wheeler or four wheeler.This is the basic principle for an officer who takes bribe.They will think that everyone need to come to them for the work which they have to do.Recently I got surprised after seeing the news that an older woman died because she is unable to go to offices after her husband’s death to get pension.In newspapers we are seeing the news that poor people are unable to bear bribes and they are roaming around offices.Corruption crawled to private sector also and recently we have seen the news regarding a business person who moved to other countries after taking stores of rupees from bank and enjoying there.But it is sad to hear that a farmer is unable to get loan and middle class person need to move around offices for loan to do marriage to his daughter.Corruption is moving to each and every place and if this continues on like this we can’t see a person stay on this earth happily.Corrupted society must not be encouraged and we need to have a clean society.

Right from ground level corruption is taking place and proper steps must be followed like observing the actions in offices by keeping cctv,keeping meetings with every department and checking what work they did that week,clearing pending files,need to do and update each file in online,and giving rewards to employees who do work properly and checking whether they are asking any from anyone.These steps can be followed only when economic standards of living are meeting our salary.Steps need to be taken to encourage employees to join their children in government schools and utilise government hospitals and providing good infrastructure in government hospitals and schools.Then corruption can be removed along with its roots.We need to encourage everyone to stop giving and taking bribes.Bribe is four letter word which is changing the entire life.We need to think should we have to go under control of four letter word?Some sincere officers are there who are doing work seriously and not taking any amount and it is the responsibility of everyone to salute them and encourage them.Even in political administration also it is playing an important role and contractors are unable to lay proper roads,proper libraries won’t be there but we will pay taxes for that while paying house tax.In some villages proper water facilities are also not there.If we are able to change these things definitely we can see new Indian country which will cross U.S

Child labour culture need to eradicated

Today child labour is one of the important problem which is there in society.We can see so many children are working in shops and in houses as servant maids.In some factories managements are keep children in work as less amount can be given to children and so many orphan children are also working.Today it became a normal thing to keep children in work but if we think about their future for a moment we can understand how we can give life to someone.Rules are there that children must not work and they need to study but rules are not implemented properly.So many situations and circumstances are forcing children to work but it is not a big problem to give education to children because government schools and colleges are taking minimal fees and providing education.But the biggest problem is children who don’t have parents need to work and they can’t study.We can see so many children will be begging near traffic signals,railway stations,bus complex.If orphanage homes take care of these children then problem can be solved upto some extent but can orphanage homes completely solve the problem?If government gets involved into this aspect it is not a big problem.Children who are going to work without studying are getting habituated to drugs,smoking and drinking and no one is there to say that they are doing wrong things.If we beat small children who are working they will develop wrong attitude on society and some are becoming devours,robbers, criminals.It is responsibility of parents to send children to school instead of sending them to work so that they will have a bright future.As per latest survey nearly 35 percent of children are going to work in small age and they are unable to develop positive attitude towards society and they are doing crimes.This bad culture must be stopped in order to provide good life to children.Proper awareness must be brought among people who are in villages because even in this generation some parents are not showing interest to send children to school.Police department along with media is playing important role in solving the problem upto some extent and we need to appreciate them for the efforts which they are keeping.We need to send children to school and help them in getting good future as “today’s children are tomorrow’s citizens”.The problem of child labour must be eradicated from the society along with its roots so that crime rate will be getting decreased and we can find literates with good knowledge.Kerala is standing in first position in literacy rate and we need to compete with Kerala to provide good education to children.